Signs That You Have High EQ

Both IQ and EQ play significant roles in your overall success in life. Your IQ indicates your level of intelligence while your EQ shows your ability to handle and control your emotions.

There are many available standardized tests online if you want to find out your IQ score. Don’t worry if your IQ is below average. Although having a high IQ will give you an advantage, it is not a guarantee for success. It only measures your potential for success. In fact, studies reveal that your EQ is more important than your IQ. Statistics show that about 90% of successful individuals have high emotional intelligence as compared to only 20% who have high IQ.

So, how do you know if you have a high emotional intelligence? Here are signs that indicate that you have a high EQ:

1. You Pause

Have you ever regretted saying some things as soon as you say them? Like for example, blurting out nasty words when angry. The ability to stop and think first before saying anything and to control your temper are easier said than done. These are skills that only high EQ individuals can do.

2. You are Difficult to Offend

Do you know of highly sensitive individuals? It is difficult to be around them because it is like always walking on eggshells. You need to be careful with your words and actions at all times so as not to offend them. Well, the opposite is true with highly emotionally intelligent people. If you can handle criticism well and you understand humour and let other people make jokes about you without being offended then that is a sign of high EQ.

3. You Owe Up to your Mistakes

Instead of looking for excuses or blaming somebody else for their mistakes, emotionally intelligent people apologize when they are wrong. They own up to their mistakes and will be responsible in correcting them.

4. You have Good Social Skills

A large part of emotional intelligence is dealing with other people. Thus, if you have a high EQ, it is only natural that you have lots of friends from diverse backgrounds. You have a way of connecting and dealing with others that they enjoy being with you too.

5. You are Open-Minded

Being open-minded means you are willing to listen and accept other people’s views and opinions about things. It means the ability to remove your personal biases and prejudices.

6. You are Self-Aware

Self-awareness is being able to know yourself and have a clear understanding of who you are, what your personality is, what your strengths and weaknesses are and what your thoughts and beliefs are. You understand your feelings and know how to control them.

7. You are a Good Judge of Character

You have the ability to understand other people, what they are feeling and where they are coming from. You can easily assess other people’s character. You can tell if they are being truthful or not. In short, you can read others like an open book.

8. You Don’t Hold Grudges

A grudge is negative emotion resulting from a past event.  A high emotionally intelligent person knows that holding grudges will only cause undue stress. Letting go does not necessarily mean forgetting what happened. It just means getting rid of negative emotions to help you feel better.

9. You Control your Thoughts

Your thoughts affect your perception of reality. It can directly control your emotions at a given time. If you dwell on negative thoughts, your life will become negative too. An emotionally intelligent person knows that the mindset affects the direction of one’s life. So instead of thinking negative thoughts, they develop the skills on how to become more positive.

10. You Fail and Rise Again

Emotionally intelligent persons are not afraid to fail. They understand that failure is part of success. What is important is that they rise up again and again each time they fall.

If you scored five and above, then that is a sign that you have a high EQ. You have what it takes to be successful in life. If your score is low, don’t feel bad. The good news is that emotional intelligence can be developed. What is important it that you are now aware of your limitations and hopefully, this will lead you to increase your desire to learn and grow your emotional quotient.





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